Forgive me for this being a rather personal post, but hopefully you’ll quickly understand why I’m making it. Twitter and Facebook have been on fire this past evening. As a Canadian, who spent most of my life living across Canada, but the last 11 years living across America, I think I have a rather fortuitous vantage point to observe, listen, and comment on viewpoints from a wide cross section of people. As this earlier post suggests, and posts from many Canadian friends confirms, it seems that almost all Canadian normies are only capable of first-stage thinking when it comes to anything related to Trump. While he is playing 4D chess, they’re playing checkers.
A Canadian woman married to an American was complaining in a Facebook post that her American in-laws were “making really mean comments about Canada”. I thought about this for awhile and then shared the following with her:
We each are the sum of our own experiences, right? I was born & raised in Vancouver, but lived 2 years in Northern Manitoba, 5 years in Northern Ontario (visiting Toronto often), and 16 months in Montréal. I’ve now lived 11 years in America, the first 6 in San Francisco and the last 4 across the country in all 48 contiguous states.
While in America, of course I get the usual jokes:
- How come you don’t end every sentence in “eh”?
- Why don’t you say “aboot” like other Canadians?
- You said “restroom”. Don’t you mean “bathroom”?! LOL
But, I’ve generally been well received by 99.9% of all Americans I’ve met (actually 100% but I’m leaving open the possibility of some idiot one day). If anything, there are more concerns about my California license plate and the arrogance that too frequently comes with that.
But throughout my life in Canada, and now upon my visits back there, wayyyy too many Canadians don’t hold back with THE NASTIEST, most passive-aggressive comments I’ve ever heard. I didn’t think the anti-American comments of Europeans could be topped but a whole lot of my fellow Canadians have done so without fail.
I fully accept and respect that the experiences of others may be different. I’m just sharing my truth.
Dear SDA commenters, what have been your experiences of Canadians talking about Americans and vice-versa?