Age of minority

Aw, just look at him, he’s the spitting image of his mother and mother:

The lesbian parents of an 11-year-old boy who is undergoing the process of becoming a girl last night defended the decision, claiming it was better for a child to have a sex change when young.

Thomas Lobel, who now calls himself Tammy, is undergoing controversial hormone blocking treatment in Berkeley, California to stop him going through puberty as a boy.

Infants be warned: you’d better choose your first words very, very carefully:

The mothers say that one of the first things Thomas told them when he learned sign language aged three – because of a speech impediment – was, ‘I am a girl’.

(Addendum: Read Richard Fernandez’s September 29 post at PJM and, especially, his comments (as “Wretchard”) below the article.)

110 Replies to “Age of minority”

  1. Cripes (I’m thinking about trademarking that)
    my mom spent 20 years and a small library of self help “books” trying to convince me that I wasn’t male.
    just because Dad could not cure her postpartum depression.
    Mom still stalks me, to this day.

  2. The mothers say that one of the first things Thomas told them when he learned sign language aged three – because of a speech impediment – was, ‘I am a girl’“.
    And the other thing he always said: “Where’s Daddy…. And what’s with Butch?”

  3. My toddler mixes up ‘he’ and ‘she’, ‘him’, ‘her’, all the time. I gently correct, it’s extremely unlikely I have some kind of grotesque mutant on my hands.

  4. The world was always insane; it is only recently that we developed the technology (internets) to realize it.

  5. Child abuse taken to a new level.
    When the Islamic/Latino takeover of California occurs this poor child will be damned if the do and damned if they don’t.
    Any doctor who assents to the wishes of these crazy lesbo gender feminists will be a criminal child abuser.

  6. Do you think that lesbian couples with sons will increasingly find excuses to have them turned into daughters?
    Naaaah, couldn’t happen. Straight out of science fiction.

  7. I object to kids being subjected to social experiments (we hanged Nazis for that). The kids first words were likely “I am a girl” because he had never hear the word ‘boy’. I know two homosexuals with two kids (one of each sex) by a surrogate mother and I object there too. One of the ‘parents’ is a doctor in a children’s ward; nice role model that and a fine example of the looney left. No, I’m not homophobic, I just don’t like child abuse.

  8. Kids now days…you can snuff em in the womb if they’re inconvienent, you can sub contract thier delivery through various permutations and combinations of surogacy and reproductive science or, if you happen to get one you deem defective…parts are now interchangeable!!

  9. Oh, why don’t you all calm down. It’s not as if he’s going to make the skins of his victims into a suit at some future date, jeez…

  10. He’s gonna be po’ed when he gets his first cycle and realizes he could have had a life without’em.

  11. Oz:
    I spent a good part of my child sticking up for teenage sisters on that PMS malfunction….
    Marriage didn’t help.

  12. Of course, let’s all make a judgment call based on very little information. And let’s just say for a second that this is a totally messed up situation… of course, this one example means that Gays shouldn’t have children.
    You guys know that you’re rightwing nutjobs, right? I mean, I know you will say something like “duh… yer a leftard”, but it only seems that way because you nearly everybody is to the left of you guys, even people who are centrist, or right of centre.

  13. this one example means that Gays shouldn’t have children.
    No, biology says that homosexuals shouldn’t have children…unless you’re an earthworm.
    Oh, and homos are koo koo for Coco Puffs.

  14. Arlo Guthrie…Woody’s hippie kid
    Yeah, thank you for the correction and the memory synco.
    Yup, Wood Guthrie and Wilf Carter(Montana Slim) were folk giants in their day.

  15. John shut up !!
    This is a case of child abuse , even if this had never seen the light of day i can tell you i am totally against gay’s being able to adopt or have surrogate mothers ….plain and simple …because of sh!t like this . Not because the kids sai it was a girl all it’s life that don’t matter no one can stop that except a father if i ever (witch i don’t recall ) said that i was a girl as a kid my mom or dad would say …no your not your a boy….plain and simple and i would go about my merry way’s melting gi joes with a magnifing glass , or throwing them out my second story window and watching them float to the ground with there plastic parachutes.
    John this is way beyond this article this article reinforces why we “right wing nut job’s” don’t agree with gay adoption,gay marrige,or gay’s having surrogates , even straight’s having surrogates , or invitro, or any other stupid test tube baby garbage.
    It you that is completley blind not us. but you would not know that cause you don’t have kids or a wife probly ,and if you do your even crazier than us for not seing how you as a man in your young childs life played a role in there development just by being around . good night all .
    John i will pray for you.

  16. My analysis as a fellow “right wing nut job”, this is child abuse that is out in the open and there is a great chance nothing will be done about. Political correctness and twisted society is having its orgasm right now.

  17. And we wonder why our children are joining gangs, becoming sexually active, turning into addicts/alcoholics, and being diagnosed as bipolar/schizophrenic at younger and younger ages in numbers that indicate we have a pandemic on our hands.
    The solution: hand out, condoms, crack pipes, needles, lower the age of sexual consent, teach them how to do sex better, drug them first with pharmaceuticals and when those fail they can always choose a street drug.
    Saw this coming and expect to see an onslaught in the media of more of the same. Watched a new crime drama last night that portrayed a pedophile in a very sympathetic light. It was obvious that the audience was supposed to feel sorry for the ‘reformed’ pedophile when he shot himself after the male cop we’re supposed to hate told his girlfriend, who had a pre-pubescent daughter, that he had spent time in jail for sexually molesting pre-pubescent girls. Turns out he was not the kidnapper of the missing girl after-all, so the female cop, we’re supposed to really like, tried to save him by talking him out of it.

  18. Paul in calgary:
    I used to go through cans of little green plastic troopers.
    Of course it goes without saying that finding a
    M-80 was found treasure for a 12 yr old boy…
    well worth the model F-4 Phantom that it got inserted in….
    A found porno mag was worth 5 dollars for a read…
    I guess I’m saying that boys in fact will be boys.
    Don’t even go into the trouble I got into when I combined a .22 rifle with a Bushnell scope….
    ‘night , I’m out.

  19. Seems the degeneration of segment of humans is gaining speed.
    The two women wanted to have a girl, did not work out, poor kid gets his instrumentation chopped off.
    Is there somethnig wrong with the homo sapiens? While 99.9% humanity functions rather well, with the every day ups and downs at random, then you have California, that must be the epcentre of idiocy.
    Could it be that the Maya know what the new bachtun will bring?

  20. Forgot to add that according to progressives, the reason children are joining gangs, having sex, using drugs and alcohol, and have been diagnosed with a mental illness is because their parents have been too ignorant to realize that their child is in fact, two-spirited, a transvestite, confused about their gender identity, etc., and that once the child and parent realize this and accept the inevitable all the ‘symptoms’ of the problem will resolve on their own. These wise counselors call this awareness an aha moment or an epiphany.

  21. Lucky Lori at October 1, 2011 1:51 AM:
    Paraphrase-
    PARENTS STOP DUMPING YOUR HANGUPS ON YOUR KIDS!!!

  22. Revnant Dream >
    “The World has become insane.”
    Not exactly, the west has become “left”.
    The rest of the world would not have even dreamt of this abomination.
    I can hear them all locking & loading from here.

  23. Do you all realize that the same people who condemn circumcision [of babies] will almost certainly be cheering on the “rights” of these two women to have their son’s penis cut off?!?
    How’s that for irony? 🙁

  24. dwright – it’s the leftists and social engineers that are dumping their hang-ups (unspeakable immorality, mass confusion, and fear) on our kids, yet I agree that parents are often also guilty.
    Knight99 – Know you not that a little leaven corrupteth the whole lump? 1 Corinthians 5:6.

  25. The mothers say that one of the first things Thomas told them when he learned sign language aged three – because of a speech impediment – was, ‘I am a girl’.
    It’s all in the punctuation folks.
    What Thomas really said was, “I am a girl?

  26. now is the time when we juxtapose:
    Freddy Mercury sound alike is a good thing, though the actual Freddy was sodomizing demon who died from AIDS and infected many others. But hey, we grew up with Queen, so that’s OK.

  27. Lucky Lori at October 1, 2011 2:38 AM
    You’re preaching to the Choir. LL
    I know because I survived growing up around one.
    Trying not to overcompensate at the old(feeling)
    age of 36.

  28. Leo G at October 1, 2011 3:18 AM:
    Yea and the lefties call that a
    “lifestyle decision”

  29. From what I read in the linked article sounds like this kid is very messed up. Whether it’s from the genes of the parents (he was adopted), the drugs the mother did while pregnant or the totally non-biologic family unit he was adopted into is unclear.
    Whenever I see an adopted kid with psychiatric problems, I try to find out as much as possible about the biologic parents as well as what the biologic mother was doing during her pregnancy. Kids which are given up for adoption are far more likely to have ADD (as young parents with ADD are far less likely to use contraception properly if they use it at all) and psychiatric problems as teenagers mentally together enough to use widely available contraceptive techniques tend not to get pregnant.
    There could be a hormonal defect which occurred either in-utero or secondary to genetics which results in the child not behaving according to their biologic sex. None of these details are given.
    I don’t think homosexual couples should be allowed to adopt kids and they should obtain them in a natural way. Far easier to do for lesbian couples where one of the women is fertile.
    No doctor would perform sexual reassignment surgery on an 11 year old as that is a sure way to lose ones medical license and end up in jail. Sounds like this is the story of one very messed up kid. Interesting from a neuroendocrinologic standpoint and a bit more complex than the post would imply.

  30. Loki at October 1, 2011 4:15 AM:
    Tell that to a boy with no balls and an empty sack
    because ONE of his so called mothers decided that
    SHE doesn’t like BOYS.

  31. You should read what Wretchard over at the Belmont Club has to say about this. I’ve never seen him so forthright in the comments.

  32. I went back and looked a the address.
    Berkeley, California
    Where else would they castrate a CHILD and call it progress.
    Same area that calls raping a 15 year old girl ART.

  33. Excerpt from the Richard Fernandez post, “The State Vs the State of Nature” that qwerty referred to above:
    “The saga of Tammy is not about sexual preference, lesbianism or homosexuality. It is about our Gaia-given right to get anything we want, any damned thing at all. It is about establishing that everyone has a right to an Ipod, affordable housing, a world without nuclear weapons, solar panels which cost three times as much as their competitors yet which should somehow be competitive. It is about our right to live in a world where the BATF can give away guns to Mexican drug dealers, the better to prove that the Second Amendment is evil because it is part of a Constitution that is at least a hundred years old and which no one understands any more; to a universe where things are so because we want them that way without any reference to economics, physics, chemistry, history or bothering to ask anyone.
    “Everyone knows that that we have to do is ask real, real hard and our wishes will be granted. That if enough Greeks demonstrate in the street then nobody has to pay back anything in the Eurozone, and if the Greeks run out of money we will just lend them some more. This is called Hope. And the result of this process will be Change. Its beautiful, beautiful.”
    The whole thing here.

  34. There are very good reasons why certain people should never be anywhere near children, let alone adopt them, and this wretched example is just one of them.
    Posted by: Osumashi Kinyobe at September 30, 2011 11:55 PM
    I have to completely disagree. I used to work in the child protection industry and we placed many of our :unadoptables| with gay couples. They made wonderful parents and they had the patience and resources to help these children, if we had waited for hetero couples these children would have languished for years in foster care without an anchor in their life. Children need love and acceptance by SOMEONE in their life.
    Heteros have their nutbars too, hence why the children were in care in the first place.

  35. And you cannot learn sign language at 3.Lying dike bitches. But it is Arhnooold and the Kennedy state. Stupid is as stupid does.

  36. And you cannot learn sign language at 3.Lying dike bitches. But it is Arhnooold and the Kennedy state. Stupid is as stupid does.
    Posted by: Justthinkin at October 1, 2011 6:55 AM
    Actually you are incorrect, we taught our babies as young as six months simple signs such as milk (for bottle), cookie ( which stood for food) hungry, mommy daddy,thank you and a few more. Babies are very smart, they haven’t developed their verbal language skills.

  37. Grey lady (6:50): Osumashi Kinyobe’s comment made absolutely no reference – not even a hint of a reference – to sexual orientation, only to unfit parents.
    The issue isn’t homosexuality in any case; the issue is – or should be – the politicized and, I would argue, egregiously violative life-changing decisions these two selfish people made on behalf of their son. Their revolting violation would be no less violative if they were a heterosexual couple.
    That being said, it’s difficult to imagine that the selfish, self-obsessed sexual-political views of these Berkely lesbians had nothing to do with their measured decision to drown their prepubescent son in estrogen treatments in the putative interest of preemptively obviating the possibility that he would have to go through the inevitable “trauma” of having to deal with, you know, becoming a man.

  38. “That being said, it’s difficult to imagine that the selfish, self-obsessed sexual-political views of these Berkely lesbians had nothing to do with their measured decision to drown their prepubescent son in estrogen treatments, in the putative interest of preemptively obviating the possibility that he would have to go through the inevitable “trauma” of having to deal with, you know, becoming a man.”
    Posted by: EBD at October 1, 2011 7:34 AM
    I tend to agree.

  39. The Grey Lady raises an interesting point, but it seems to run counter to other trends in contemporary social work. We see an intense and growing opposition to trans-racial adoption (or at least to the adoption of black and aboriginal children by whites or other racial groups). Perhaps we should consider restricting homosexual couples to the adoption of homosexual children.
    If, as many social workers believe, there is something inherently discriminatory for blacks to be producing healthy children to supply a white population unable or unwilling to bear their own, why would this argument not apply here. It is also argued that trans-racial adoption robs minority communities of their future leaders and members. Similarly, it is argued that black and aboriginal children adopted into white families will sense their “difference”, have a low self-esteem, and, lacking a strong sense of their own racial identify, be unable to form healthy relationships with either their adoptive or biological families.
    If these arguments are to be taken seriously (and they are by the “progressive” wing of our society), why are they not valid in these cases? Perhaps heterosexual couples should be denied the right to adopt homosexual children and vice versa? Now, please don’t ask how we know who’s what. Homosexual activists assure us that they were “born this way” just like those of us with a left-handed orientation.
    Homosexual children could grow up affirmed by homosexual parents in those “committed and loving relationships” that define the gay, lesbian, bi-sexual, and transgendered communities. Until we know more about the effects of inter-orientation or trans-orientation adoption, prudence suggests we should err on the side of caution.

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