I am familiar with this issue as I know some young smart, gorgeous women. More than once it has become apparent that some men are intimidated by them. The men themselves have said this. In redefining male female roles, we have made men more vulnerable in favour of building up women. The other issue is that now that sex is freely available for young men (often, anyway), those who are self centred (many are), don’t want to commit to marriage. The role models for men marrying and raising children are no longer there. If you will notice, even many who do eventually marry do do later and later, often into their 30’s. Feminism has been very damaging to traditional family units.
MGTOW + WGTOW = A lot of masturbation and no kids to support you when you’re old, sick, and lonely.
The source article at Wake Up Your Mind is insightful.
Per the article, these women (good looks with adornments and face paint) are successful cuz they hold feminists ideals and are single by their own choice and loving it …and men being men, are guilty of a litany of shortcomings.
They believe gender is an artificial social construct and has nothing to do with the XY chromosome thing and the
1 million years of bio-evolution that has equipped her with instincts of a female of the species.
They get gina jingles dreaming of being rescued by a prince as in the romantic tales of chivalry but will deny the very essence of their feminine nature.
“This doesn’t mean that we are adverse to one day getting married…” By then, she is toxic material.
She has internalized the hateful ideology of what is feminism.
She can’t love what she can’t respect. But then she isn’t marrying for love.
It is a beautiful dance when the genders know their respective steps.
Betting her idea of smart and gorgeous is very liberal.
The whole narrative is about how to be a bitch. Hope she likes cats. From a male point of view, if you wait for the perfect woman, you will never find her – we are all loaded with faults. At some point in your relationship you have to decide which you like more, fighting or effing, and learn to compromise accordingly. You don’t have to win every argument and after a while you find that you rarely have an argument. Unfortunately this doesn’t work with crazy people so when you find someone who is spring-loaded run away.
There is nothing wrong with young women not wanting to get married, proud of making it on their own. The only issue I see is the woman who grows out of her youth still thinking she is smart and gorgeous only to find herself in her 40s, infertile, with student loans, purple hair and a real nice pot belly over which her sagging boobies hang. Will she compromise for the equivalent sweat-pant wearing, beer swilling, bed farting, ball scratching male? She’ll have to if she wants a man by that stage.
For the last generation or so, popular culture has put down men, presumably from the institutionalized eco-feminist left, resulting in a shifting trend where more men are actualizing their low expectations or adopting feminist attributes while more women are delaying their family/mating years in favour of professional development only to find out that they can’t have it all. Women now outnumber men at universities and look at the toxic nihilistic gruel they are fed on modern campuses. Feminism isn’t mutual respect, it’s the road to loneliness and resentment.
So…women are dispensing with men because modern innovation has empowered women? I guess men will just have to step it up. We might also need to consider than marriage is a faulty and obsolete institution.
It’s more complicated than that. The more successful “couples” are getting married and staying married to the point that the divorce rate in the USA has dropped by 18% from 2008 to 2016. Less educated “couples” are cohabiting but not marrying and tend to separate more often than married people. So it would seem “marriage” is becoming an institution of successful couples as opposed to becoming faulty and obsolete as you suggest. Still not married are you?
I saw that. Great news. Thank goodness my generation has largely ignored advice from religious/traditionalist types who urge them to tie the knot early and start having kids.
Your generation is cohabiting at about the same age that mine was. The difference (between our generations) is that your generation is not transitioning from cohabitation to marriage at the same rate we were. In fact they (sociologists) have coined the term serial cohabitors to define those who move from relationship to relationship but who never get married. Less millennials are getting married but those who do are divorcing less. Makes sense.
One problem with the above article is the claim that more women are single, strong and gorgeous. While this may be true, statistically a much greater number of those women have cohabited with men in the past. This makes them less likely to be desirable to men in the future IMO and much less likely to ever marry. If they think that is a good thing then GOD bless them.
What is also interesting about your group is that marriage is now seen more as a status symbol and less as a religious event. The traditionalist types pretty much faded out after WWII or did you miss the 60s?
Successful millennial couples are more likely to be married, highly educated and (sorry) white. The serial cohabitors are more likely to be never married, women with children, poorly educated and from a minority background.
Well at least in your case everyone is agreement, you should not procreate, not that you’re likely to ever find the opportunity.
If only your parents were that smart…
… oh I see… ooops.
Men are dispensing with women because modern innovation (almost all the work of men) has made women obsolete for anything but sex and reproduction, and is well on its way to rendering them obsolete even for that.
Problem is, women haven’t figured that out yet—much less how sick men are of keeping their ex-wives in luxury and idleness.
My wife of 30 years is very grateful that I go to work to earn the money to pay for the house, truck, necessities, and luxuries we enjoy. I do it so she doesn’t have to. It frees up her days so she can do whatever she wants to, like working at the food bank a couple of days a week, but she is not obligated to keep a job if she doesn’t want one.
My favorite “Winner Comment Of the Day”:
DO NOT FUCK MEN WHO SUPPORT KAVANAUGH DO NOT FUCK MEN WHO SUPPORT KAVANAUGH DO NOT FUCK MEN WHO SUPPORT KAVANAUGH DO NOT FUCK MEN WHO SUPPORT KAVANAUGH
DeplorableAsHell
@jbug9969
Replying to @svershbow
I hope this becomes ‘a thing’. I’ll buy every Male I love a ‘I support Justice Kavanaugh’ shirt- just to keep you psychotic freaks away from them. #winning #MAGA
7:18 AM – 7 Oct 2018
I am beginning to think that any woman who has recently (last 10 years) been educated in a western post-secondary institute, unless it is a pure technical college, is probably unmarriageable. This is a good chance for men to lift up oppressed women who live in third world countries by marrying them and bringing them back to North America, it would improve their standard of living immensely and, unlike the home grown variety, they would actually appreciate it. It has been apparent for a while now that women cannot have it all, a successful and enriching career (is there such a thing for anyone), a fulfilling life outside work and a family with 2.5 children. Its not possible to fit it all in before you age out, unless you have your family first and then go back and have a job, but by then the focus has moved on and a career is not as important. I guess with the Millennials being more “me” focused and narcissistic it might not work out as we thought it should, but life will go on – just not as smoothly as it might have.
Incidentally, this is why single females tend to support open borders—to guarantee themselves an ample supply of thick black pudding.
The difference, of course, is that it’s “empowering” when they bend over for a big black buck. When we pass them over for marriage it’s the patriarchy at work.
“…bend over for a big black buck…”
You know black guys on average aren’t that much different than white guys … on average … oh I see.
My question is simply:
” what guy wouldn’t want to marry a woman that’s had sex with 30,40 or even 50 guys in her lifetime?”
Honestly: why not?
That article could easily have been written by someone I once knew. She was well-educated and I’m sure she had her share of suitors, but her attitude wasn’t far from the comments that the writer made. She was well on her way to becoming a cat lady but I heard she finally got married in her late 40s.
Oddly enough, I’ve never met any woman in that category who was also a conservative. Many were ardent feminists, a few were new-age flakes, and some were SJWs before the term was coined.
I met my ex @ university. found out ALL her siblings and ALL her friends had degrees, medicine, business, etc.
it prompted me to dig in and get my own.
I did NOT take it as an insult to my ‘masculineahmaaaanhood’ but rather the inspiration to match the accomplishment.
there are a LOT of snivelling control freak fragile egos out there. that thing about ‘rape is about power’, very true.
I agree completely with this woman’s viewpoint.
all powerful , yet simultaneously impotent victims !?
one word answer, a generation of:
harridans
….Smart and gorgeous a proven oxymoron!
I am familiar with this issue as I know some young smart, gorgeous women. More than once it has become apparent that some men are intimidated by them. The men themselves have said this. In redefining male female roles, we have made men more vulnerable in favour of building up women. The other issue is that now that sex is freely available for young men (often, anyway), those who are self centred (many are), don’t want to commit to marriage. The role models for men marrying and raising children are no longer there. If you will notice, even many who do eventually marry do do later and later, often into their 30’s. Feminism has been very damaging to traditional family units.
MGTOW + WGTOW = A lot of masturbation and no kids to support you when you’re old, sick, and lonely.
From the thread:
https://tse4.mm.bing.net/th?id=OIP.IDWmnixg7ElZRF2tSb6e5wHaK4&pid=Api
What The….My smart beautiful wife of nearly 40 years has been starting the roll under and we have NO cats!
signed concerned!
The source article at Wake Up Your Mind is insightful.
Per the article, these women (good looks with adornments and face paint) are successful cuz they hold feminists ideals and are single by their own choice and loving it …and men being men, are guilty of a litany of shortcomings.
They believe gender is an artificial social construct and has nothing to do with the XY chromosome thing and the
1 million years of bio-evolution that has equipped her with instincts of a female of the species.
They get gina jingles dreaming of being rescued by a prince as in the romantic tales of chivalry but will deny the very essence of their feminine nature.
“This doesn’t mean that we are adverse to one day getting married…” By then, she is toxic material.
She has internalized the hateful ideology of what is feminism.
She can’t love what she can’t respect. But then she isn’t marrying for love.
It is a beautiful dance when the genders know their respective steps.
Betting her idea of smart and gorgeous is very liberal.
The whole narrative is about how to be a bitch. Hope she likes cats. From a male point of view, if you wait for the perfect woman, you will never find her – we are all loaded with faults. At some point in your relationship you have to decide which you like more, fighting or effing, and learn to compromise accordingly. You don’t have to win every argument and after a while you find that you rarely have an argument. Unfortunately this doesn’t work with crazy people so when you find someone who is spring-loaded run away.
There is nothing wrong with young women not wanting to get married, proud of making it on their own. The only issue I see is the woman who grows out of her youth still thinking she is smart and gorgeous only to find herself in her 40s, infertile, with student loans, purple hair and a real nice pot belly over which her sagging boobies hang. Will she compromise for the equivalent sweat-pant wearing, beer swilling, bed farting, ball scratching male? She’ll have to if she wants a man by that stage.
For the last generation or so, popular culture has put down men, presumably from the institutionalized eco-feminist left, resulting in a shifting trend where more men are actualizing their low expectations or adopting feminist attributes while more women are delaying their family/mating years in favour of professional development only to find out that they can’t have it all. Women now outnumber men at universities and look at the toxic nihilistic gruel they are fed on modern campuses. Feminism isn’t mutual respect, it’s the road to loneliness and resentment.
So…women are dispensing with men because modern innovation has empowered women? I guess men will just have to step it up. We might also need to consider than marriage is a faulty and obsolete institution.
It’s more complicated than that. The more successful “couples” are getting married and staying married to the point that the divorce rate in the USA has dropped by 18% from 2008 to 2016. Less educated “couples” are cohabiting but not marrying and tend to separate more often than married people. So it would seem “marriage” is becoming an institution of successful couples as opposed to becoming faulty and obsolete as you suggest. Still not married are you?
https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2018-09-25/millennials-are-causing-the-u-s-divorce-rate-to-plummet
I saw that. Great news. Thank goodness my generation has largely ignored advice from religious/traditionalist types who urge them to tie the knot early and start having kids.
Your generation is cohabiting at about the same age that mine was. The difference (between our generations) is that your generation is not transitioning from cohabitation to marriage at the same rate we were. In fact they (sociologists) have coined the term serial cohabitors to define those who move from relationship to relationship but who never get married. Less millennials are getting married but those who do are divorcing less. Makes sense.
One problem with the above article is the claim that more women are single, strong and gorgeous. While this may be true, statistically a much greater number of those women have cohabited with men in the past. This makes them less likely to be desirable to men in the future IMO and much less likely to ever marry. If they think that is a good thing then GOD bless them.
What is also interesting about your group is that marriage is now seen more as a status symbol and less as a religious event. The traditionalist types pretty much faded out after WWII or did you miss the 60s?
Successful millennial couples are more likely to be married, highly educated and (sorry) white. The serial cohabitors are more likely to be never married, women with children, poorly educated and from a minority background.
Well at least in your case everyone is agreement, you should not procreate, not that you’re likely to ever find the opportunity.
If only your parents were that smart…
… oh I see… ooops.
Men are dispensing with women because modern innovation (almost all the work of men) has made women obsolete for anything but sex and reproduction, and is well on its way to rendering them obsolete even for that.
Problem is, women haven’t figured that out yet—much less how sick men are of keeping their ex-wives in luxury and idleness.
My wife of 30 years is very grateful that I go to work to earn the money to pay for the house, truck, necessities, and luxuries we enjoy. I do it so she doesn’t have to. It frees up her days so she can do whatever she wants to, like working at the food bank a couple of days a week, but she is not obligated to keep a job if she doesn’t want one.
My favorite “Winner Comment Of the Day”:
DO NOT FUCK MEN WHO SUPPORT KAVANAUGH DO NOT FUCK MEN WHO SUPPORT KAVANAUGH DO NOT FUCK MEN WHO SUPPORT KAVANAUGH DO NOT FUCK MEN WHO SUPPORT KAVANAUGH
DeplorableAsHell
@jbug9969
Replying to @svershbow
I hope this becomes ‘a thing’. I’ll buy every Male I love a ‘I support Justice Kavanaugh’ shirt- just to keep you psychotic freaks away from them. #winning #MAGA
7:18 AM – 7 Oct 2018
I am beginning to think that any woman who has recently (last 10 years) been educated in a western post-secondary institute, unless it is a pure technical college, is probably unmarriageable. This is a good chance for men to lift up oppressed women who live in third world countries by marrying them and bringing them back to North America, it would improve their standard of living immensely and, unlike the home grown variety, they would actually appreciate it. It has been apparent for a while now that women cannot have it all, a successful and enriching career (is there such a thing for anyone), a fulfilling life outside work and a family with 2.5 children. Its not possible to fit it all in before you age out, unless you have your family first and then go back and have a job, but by then the focus has moved on and a career is not as important. I guess with the Millennials being more “me” focused and narcissistic it might not work out as we thought it should, but life will go on – just not as smoothly as it might have.
Incidentally, this is why single females tend to support open borders—to guarantee themselves an ample supply of thick black pudding.
The difference, of course, is that it’s “empowering” when they bend over for a big black buck. When we pass them over for marriage it’s the patriarchy at work.
“…bend over for a big black buck…”
You know black guys on average aren’t that much different than white guys … on average … oh I see.
My question is simply:
” what guy wouldn’t want to marry a woman that’s had sex with 30,40 or even 50 guys in her lifetime?”
Honestly: why not?
That article could easily have been written by someone I once knew. She was well-educated and I’m sure she had her share of suitors, but her attitude wasn’t far from the comments that the writer made. She was well on her way to becoming a cat lady but I heard she finally got married in her late 40s.
Oddly enough, I’ve never met any woman in that category who was also a conservative. Many were ardent feminists, a few were new-age flakes, and some were SJWs before the term was coined.
I met my ex @ university. found out ALL her siblings and ALL her friends had degrees, medicine, business, etc.
it prompted me to dig in and get my own.
I did NOT take it as an insult to my ‘masculineahmaaaanhood’ but rather the inspiration to match the accomplishment.
there are a LOT of snivelling control freak fragile egos out there. that thing about ‘rape is about power’, very true.
I agree completely with this woman’s viewpoint.
all powerful , yet simultaneously impotent victims !?
HaHAHaHahahahaha