37 Replies to “Men Are Such Beasts”

  1. Being bored and not having a direction in life seems to be where we’re at now with all that freedom while still living in a world full of rules, regulations and laws.
    Good luck in finding a happy way out.

    The greatest happiness is when you have no rules and are free…

  2. So not worth it, I bet you she is a lousy lay too. Hope he bangs his secretary and her sister.

    1. How could such a miserable, selfish, unaware, c()nt … be a good sexual partner. Too lazy to even FAKE an orgasm.

  4. What a horrible, immature wife! She most likely will be the one to file for divorce (2/3 divorces initiated by women) once the kids are in school, she has a full time job and they have enough family assets.

    Finding a man who is as high in conscientiousness, optimism and self-direction as this guy appears to be is a huge bonus. Selecting a good spouse in the first place is very important. I did. My late husband was sort of like him, but he was a gourmet cook, excellent gardener and very devoted to work. I did teach him how to clean up the kitchen as he cooked and he did his share of lego pick-up, snow removal blue jobs and general maintenance.

    He did not really care to understand laundry machines or budgets, but that was fine with me, as I liked those jobs and prefer not to have pink tinged white clothing.

    I do recall being basically jealous because he was having fun at work and I was young, cleaning up after babies and sorting socks, but those years were fleeting in a life together of fun. Whining with girlfriends helps a marriage.

    We also deliberately made time for us to have fun from day one, as I refused to be left out of Friday afternoon bar forays. That is what babysitters are for. His choice of work had some big bonuses for me too. In later years, I was able to use my pre-marriage advanced education fully at work. We had a lot of fun as a twosome again after our kids were partially launched.

    On average, men have somewhat different aptitudes, interests, drives, skills and personality traits than women (check out Dr. Jordan Pederson, as I am also a psychologist and have read the same literature in much less depth), and women who do not get this will have relationship fails.

    I have been watching older movies that I missed when I was busy or out-of-the-country. Huge themes emerge from the 80’s and 90’s. “Competent single perfect mom and bad daddy who cheated”. Over and over. No wonder ungrateful, selfish women emerged …

    1. One of my sons is currently going through a divorce. It was all great and amicable until she found out in mediation she was responsible for 50% of the joint marital debt and their current shared custody arrangement means no child support and splitting the child tax credit 50:50. Suddenly he’s an unfit father and she wants full custody and he’s a deadbeat dad.

      1. Ah the laws we create for the love of money instead of the stability of the family when it doesn’t work.
        Reminds me of another one created by next of kin and common law spouse when no Will exists.
        First to the courts can be executor of the estate. Even when the estate is just full of debt but exaggerations were created and looking for the loot destroys families as well.

      2. My sister in law discovered the same thing when her $30k retainer female lawyer advised her of the “community” laws in CA. Shortly thereafter, she accused her ex of sexually molesting their 2yo daughter. Not their other two 8 and 10 yo daughters (because they could refute any such stories) … but their 2yo. So their 2yo had to point to parts on the anatomically-correct doll “where daddy touched her”. Daddy, who was an elementary school teacher lost his job immediately upon the accusation, and never returned to the classroom … even after being cleared of all charges TWO YEARS LATER!

        Frankly, if your ex isn’t accusing you of molesting your own children … then you got away LUCKY

      3. Many women demand to be treated as equals – until they find out what being equal really means.

  5. American women have gotten virtually everything that they said that they wanted back in 1970, and they’re more unhappy than ever.

  8. Her husband has probably figured her out by now and knows he’s trapped.

    But he doesn’t want to expose his kids to an endless parade of losers looking for sex.

    Hopefully the kids are grown by the time this inevitably falls apart. Poor guy.

  9. Fortunately, not all women are like this one. But they are a different creature, yes indeed. Stay away, far away, from the bad ones and find a good one.

  10. The piece doesn’t mention who does the cooking. Maybe she is a wonderful cook, one who bakes everything, has gourmet meals ready every day and has the family’s lunches made plus a grocery list always on the go. That’s likely why she doesn’t have time to brush her teeth– she’s always cooking. When all her teeth fall out, she’ll be sorry. She’ll only be able to lick the spoon.

    This story sucks! But hey, maybe she’s a great singer.

    And, people will say, one day, too bad she died, she had wonderful hair! /s

    Ha! Ha!

  11. Oh relax, would you all? What’s the purpose, really, of creating an SDA post about an entirely inconsequential article — written by a complete stranger, without any of you in mind, on a random lifestyle website aimed at like-minded moms — just so folks can come together here anonymously to witness each other complaining about it?

    Seriously, what is the virtue of doing this — for some of you religiously, day in and day out, for literally years now? Do you get a little thrill from pointlessly kvetching about “the world” on this public forum? Perhaps you draw some sad pleasure from collectively mocking people from a safe distance? Or maybe you recognize that it leaves you vaguely more bitter, a tiny bit more scowl-y, a little less joyful — but you’re addicted nonetheless.

    So much active effort expended, returning every few hours, issuing your instant and ephemeral judgments of others in absentia, whispering your endless resentments into the void, a virtual clubhouse for cultivating petty grievances.

    2. Dear god;

      So let me get this right? You speak in praiseworthy terms about “like-minded” mommies (read: angry, bitter, leftist, sold-out-feminist, mommies) coming together on a “lifestyle website” to complain about their husbands …

      … but …

      Like-minded conservatives who come together on SDA to share our views (complain) about the cultural/political wasteland of the cultural/political Left … is a bad thing?

      Doesn’t sound very Godly to favor one group over another … for no reason.

      1. “Praiseworthy”? I believe I referred to the original linked article as “entirely inconsequential”, and I stand by that.

        This SDA thread, however, is not about enabling folks to come together to complain about their personal lives; it’s about enabling folks to come together to complain about other people complaining about their personal lives. In other words, it’s second-order futility. Beyond pointless.

        A quick Google search suggests that you, or at least someone who goes online by “Kenji”, has been doing this on SDA for at least the past four years. Four. Years.

        2. FIVE years, by my count … when I was first predicting Trump would win! That wasn’t complaining … it was hopeful and joyful. And then I spent 4-years PRAISING all the personal lives PDJT enhanced.

          We SDA regulars complain about the public policies that destroy personal lives. I find this task rather positive and uplifting. You know … speaking truth to power. That cannot ever really be inconsequential. Unless you (personally) HATE our viewpoint.

          So you come here to call us inconsequential complainers. When what you’d REALLY want to do is de-platform Kate and SILENCE us. You HATE debate … like all leftists. Pro Tip: God is not a leftist. That’s plainly written in His Word.

    3. Dear “God” first of all I don’t believe in you since I already have a deity. Hint: he was once one of your “angels.”

      Second: would you please tell Xi to hurry up with my anal swab?

    4. So much active effort expended, returning every few hours, issuing your instant and ephemeral judgments of others in absentia, whispering your endless resentments into the void, a virtual clubhouse for cultivating petty grievances.

      Thanks for providing your apt description of the Scary Mommy website.

      1. Kenji
        Karen’s idiotic Idol, idiotic, higher power,
        Reminds me of a black bird troll, Dives into your windshield, gets paid a few bird seeds for a visit, Shits all over your new wax job, then flies off to spread some more crap.
        Why is black bird Shit always white?

        1. Yep. Like the common house finch which smashes itself into my second story window each spring. Attacking its own reflection over and over … until it breaks its neck … and I put it in the compost garbage bin.

          1. Ha, true but funny.

            I had a Telsa California Wally Wall Whopper crash into one of my White Moving Vans.
            Strange Bird?
            They should not be allowed to migrate.

  12. There’s a certain amount of shock value here today plus you guys are hilarious ….. I’m crying!!

    1. Back to her leftist mommy … who was most likely THRILLED to have been rid of THIS troubled child.

  14. being a practicing catholic here is a link that will help. I’m not too interested in your answers.
    it is a case of believe it or not.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wBgEDJt9aow
    my point of view is women have 3 lives…vocations. married to a man, a spinster or a
    ‘spouse of Christ’. The author of this link choose the latter. Just don’t abuse her. In English slang, He can be a right old *******

  15. God, (not a great handle, and already in use) I don’t recall anyone asking you to attend this site. I attend this site because I enjoy the friendly banter, the serious debate and the comparing of notes on all things of interest. I don’t need to attend this site, I attend because I enjoy what this site provides. It would appear that you don’t like this site, and consider the attendees as whiny and petty. That is your right to think that, but if you’re so offended, why even bother posting.
    I respectfully suggest you seek out another site more to your preference, and leave us to enjoy this site. We obviously do, because we keep coming back to share with one another. Nobody is forcing you to be here, yet here you are, whining at us because we like to be here, and you so obviously don’t like to be here, except to complain, call us names and whine. This is a preferred and shared playground and us kids like being here. So please run along and find the other playground where the mean kids spit at each other, and call out nasty names. Oh, and we’re not over there because we don’t wish to be over there. So go poop in someone else’s cornflakes, asshole!

    2. Ah ha ha ha! Very good! A 100% score!
      Do you still have a British accent GerryK?
      You once wrote that you came from across the pond. Ever since, I read your posts imagining you sound like Michael Caine. It’s very effective, especially reading what you just wrote @ 3:50 pm! Ha!

  16. None of the commenters thought this article was tongue-in-cheek? Maybe even a hoax?

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